Friday, November 20, 2009
spotlight is on
This is just a tad late (by about six weeks) but I still think it is deserving of a post. Back in October, I went to see MuteMath for the second time with my brother. However, the location and venue were a thousand times better than when I first saw them a few years ago in Roseville, CA at a small concert space attached to a church. The crowd at the Roseville show was so rude, immature (mainly young emo teenage wannabes), and you could tell that it affected the the mood of the band. There wasn't much energy in the crowd so I think the MuteMath guys had a hard time giving a truly passionate performance.
This experience was completely different and I'm so glad I got to see MuteMath really in their element. They played at the Fillmore in San Francisco, one of my absolute favorite concert venues. I will admit that going into the concert with my spry younger brother, I was a little weary of standing for 3+ hours (we arrived at 7:30, the show didn't start until 9 and didn't end until 11:30) and yes, this is a sign that I'm getting old and decrepit. But any aching in my feet was well worth it for a fantastic show that really made me forget about standing for so long. They are one of the most energetic and interactive bands you will ever see live and very physical in their performance---jumping, throwing themselves into the crowd, leaping off a piano and standing on drums. However, it never comes across as over the top but rather is delivered in a way that genuinely demonstrates their fervor for music and their excitement for playing it live. I hope to see many more MuteMath shows in my lifetime!
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Friday, October 23, 2009
where the road meets the sun

Last Sunday, David's Aunt Joanne passed away from a 20 year on again/off again battle with cancer. At her memorial service today, there were several powerful moments. The morning burial at the gravesite with family filled with prayer and reading Bible passages out loud while also being enveloped in the comfort of the warm sunbeams. Walking around the cemetery with Karis and Hope, Joanne's young granddaughters, as they commented on all the pretty flowers they saw. Listening to an amazing live version of "That Old Rugged Cross" sung during the public service. Hearing an uplifting and thought-provoking message from Joanne's son-in-law about her reality of being in a 'better place' ---rejoicing in heaven at the feet of Jesus--- being biblical truth, not just wishful thinking. Spending quality, blessed time with Joanne's family; her husband Wade, her daughters Katie and Barbara, and all the rest of David's extended family. It was a day of mourning a family's loss and a day of hope due to heaven's gain. Two verses to ponder:
"It is better to go to a house of mourning
than to go to a house of feasting,
for death is the destiny of everyone;
the living should take this to heart. "
~Ecclesiastes 7:2
"Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful."
~Hebrews 10:23
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Thursday, October 08, 2009
October-fest
October is a good month for many reasons. It ushers in a new season of cardigans, pumpkin-flavored items, and the celebration of another year of my life. This October is off to quite a nice start. My hubby and I had a glorious breakfast feast last Saturday because it was the one weekend this month that he does not have his MBA classes so we could sleep in and lounge over a morning meal. We made beignets, which are French doughnuts with powdered sugar that they serve in New Orleans. For our first time making them, I was very proud! David also whipped up delicious goat cheese and prosciutto omelets, muy delicioso!
Then last night, I went to see Legally Blonde: The Musical with ten other girls for a ladies night out and it was just as much fun seeing it the second time as when I first saw it in San Francisco three years ago. The show has so much energy that you can't help feeling upbeat when you leave the theater!
This morning, my co-workers and I strolled over to the Good Life Garden, which is a public garden for UCD staff, students, and faculty by the new Mondavi Institute for Wine & Food Science. They had a free "harvest" today which means you can come by and take as much basil, oregano, mint, thyme, and other fresh herbs that you want. Score!
On Friday, I'm headed into SF to catch a concert at the Fillmore with my younger bro and then I get to spend the night with one of my besties Kate and her husband Chris in Walnut Creek. October has definitely been a fab month so far and can only get better in my opinion!
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Friday, September 25, 2009
raise a glass
I've been to a few university retirement parties in the last couple months (I guess people realize it's a good time to leave the UC system!) and I always leave each party feeling such a sense of gratitude towards being a part of the Design department. Everyone, both faculty and staff, truly care for one another and there is a presence of genuine community that I know can be rare within an academic department. Tonight's party for Victoria Rivers, Design faculty member for 30 years, was another great celebration. And true to the spirit of the Design program, it was an eclectic mix of memorable moments, including a faculty member asking me if I wanted a tequila shot (I politely declined, I'm not a tequila girl). Then there was Victoria's touching speech about how the success of her career was not due to her own talents but was a collaborative process involving every other faculty and staff member she had worked with over the years she had been at UC Davis. I think this is why I really enjoy retirement parties because it is a special time of recognizing not just how far one has come but the people who have been there along the way. Personally, there's no other group of people I'd want to share the professional part of my life with right now and it does pain me to think of eventually leaving such a grand group of people. One last highlight of the night was eating cake. More specifically, the way the cake was eaten: there weren't any extra plates or forks leftover from dinner, so one of the faculty jumped in and suggested that we serve it on napkins. Instead of being snooty and complaining, everyone went on socializing as normal, while eating off their napkins with their fingers. It doesn't really surprise me Victoria stayed in this department for three decades, it's just a unique place that attracts really warm, down-to-earth people who don't mind getting a little messy while eating some cake.
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Sunday, August 30, 2009
101 days of summer
The lazy days of summer are over, as of tomorrow. I wanted to particularly relish every moment of this summer, knowing that once grad classes began in the fall, it wouldn't be until Christmas break that I'd have a good amount of free time again.
Here's a numbers breakdown of my summer:
Weddings Attended: 3
Brea and Nathan
Katy and Dale
Heather and Justin
Weddings I Wanted to Go To, But Couldn't: 2
Ashley and Mike
Carol and Joe
Movies Seen in Theatres: 4
Up
Star Trek
500 Days of Summer (yes, I stole my blog post title from this)
Julie & Julia
Movies Rented: 14
I Love You, Man
The Spirit of the Marathon
Taken
Last Chance Harvey
Rachel Getting Married
Road to Perdition
Forgetting Sarah Marshall
Evening
Sophie's Choice
Doubt
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
Lakeview Terrace
Yes Man
Bolt
Books Read: 10
Angels and Demons by Dan Brown
Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson
My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Piccoult
A Prayer for Owen Meany by John Irving
We Are All Welcome Here by Elizabeth Berg
Two Part Invention by Madeleine L'Engle
Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut (re-reading it for the first time since 10th grade)
Crazy Love by Francis Chan
The Spellman Files by Lisa Lutz
The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini
Musical Theatre Performances Attended: 2
Wicked
The Music Man
Live Music Events Attended: 2
Jimmy Buffett - Concord, CA
Preservation Hall Jazz Band - New Orleans, LA
New States Visited: 6
Vermont
New Hampshire
Connecticut
Rhode Island
Maine
Louisiana
All added together, it equals one fantastic summer!
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Friday, August 28, 2009
family matters
Since David is gone until next Wednesday, I've been staying at my parents house the last few nights. I knew that if I was alone in our house for 2 weeks, my mind would run wild with thoughts of scary scenarios and that it would be best for my sanity if I was around other people. Plus, I get free meals that I'm not involved in cooking so it really turns out to be a pretty good deal for me.
Anyhow, my younger brother Steve is also at my parent's house for a few days before he moves to Santa Cruz when his lease starts next week. It's a little strange to revert back to my living situation of when I was in high school---me, my brother, and my parents all under one roof.
One of the things I appreciate about my immediate family is that we all grew up saying what's on our mind, even if it's messy and not fully thought out. We never sweep anything under the rug; if something or someone is bothering us we confront each other and say so and fight it out (most of the time loudly) and get it over with instead of doing the whole passive aggressive thing. And yet, tonight I was reminded that this family trait can also be one of my biggest frustrations.
Tonight's family fight began regarding my brother's flossing habits (or rather his resistance to flossing) and it turned into a much deeper fight about differences in perspectives about money (relating to my parents buying a new car). Voices began to rise and I just wasn't feeling like joining in on what was becoming a heated debate. So I did what I've never done before, I got up and left and took my car and drove around for 20 minutes in silence. I needed to clear my head and think in a separate space instead of add to the emotions of the discussion. I then drove back to my parents house, and came back to the fight winding down into truce mode. I threw in my two cents, saying that I sort of understood both perspectives and felt that both my parents and my brother were somewhat right and somewhat hypocritical. And then they decided to agree to disagree and without a residue of bitterness, it was over. Despite yelling at each other five minutes before, the issue had been resolved to a point where an understanding was reached. Everyone's respect for one another was still in tact. I'm not really sure why this was deserving of a blog post other than the fact that this has helped me to process this event and just process in general the conflict resolution habits of my family, which I realize I'm thankful for in the end, despite the messiness.
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Monday, July 27, 2009
Oh, my NOLA
I think it was New Orleans Square in Disneyland that first heightened my interest as a young child in visiting New Orleans. In high school I became a huge fan of both Louis Armstrong and Harry Connick, Jr., both New Orleans natives, and I fell in love with the infectiously whimsical sound of Dixieland jazz. As a teenager, I resolved that at some point in my life I would need to go straight to the source of my musical love and visit New Orleans, the birthplace of jazz.
After Hurricane Katrina, I was overwhelmed by the images I saw on TV that showed a decimated and degraded city that had previously seemed so full of life and good times. The thought of going on a trip to help the city in the rebuilding process crossed my mind a few months after Katrina hit but soon faded as I realized I didn't have enough vacation time saved up to do. Fast forward to May 2009 and the opportunity arose once again. It came in the form of an email from our good friends, Bronwyn and Jarrod, who asked if we were interested in joining a team from their church to go to New Orleans for a week to do various service projects. David and I had already spent a week of vacation time on our trip to New England, and we weren't planning on doing any more trips for the rest of the year. But something tugged at both of us to consider this unique option. For me, it was a chance to put my faith into action and serve those who need help physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I won't say that my motivations were totally selfless though---I also knew this would be a great chance to see a city I had always been intrigued by. So we bought plane tickets and were officially part of the 2009 New Orleans team from First Baptist Church (although we still represented our Covenant denomination pride, haha).
Our time in New Orleans was relatively short but our experiences spanned many emotions and therefore caused the trip to feel much longer than 6 days. For the first 2 days, we volunteered with Habitat for Humanity and got to play with power tools, experienced Gulf Coast humidity in all it's sweaty glory, and painted many, MANY baseboards. During the second day, we volunteered at a site with one of the most humble and inspiring people I've come across---Mr. Paul Branch, who lives in a town near New Orleans. He is one of the Habitat core volunteers in the New Orleans area, which for him means that he volunteers on any days that he is not working at his job as an oilfield consultant. Firstly, Paul had a gracious and generous spirit. An example of this was when he brought in a huge dish of red beans and rice (a New Orleans classic dish), potato chips, and watermelon for us to have for lunch (normally Habitat does not provide lunch for the volunteers). When I asked him how he prepared it, he casually said that he had gotten up at 4 am that morning to make it because it takes several hours to simmer and he wanted our team to have a fresh batch in order to capture the flavor best. And although we didn't have much to compare it to, everyone on our team agreed that it was probably the best red beans and rice we would ever have and told Paul we'd be emailing him for the recipe. In addition to his hospitality, Paul's strong commitment to help others in his community was also quite striking. At one point during the day, someone asked him how many other volunteer teams had come to help him on this house. He modestly said that we were the first team he had worked with in quite some time and that it had taken him 40 days to redo the roof on the house by himself. All of us were shocked to hear that he had been working on a majority of the house alone, but then he said that he's been granted the ability and the means to help those who were hit hardest by Katrina and that it's only natural that he use what he's been blessed with to help those in need around him. "Help other people and you'll be ok," he told us during the lunch break. Throughout the rest of the week I realized what he meant. The reference to being "ok" was not meant in a legalistic way referring to doing good works in order to get spiritual brownie points. He instead was referencing how helping others helps rejuvenate the soul in a way that not many other things can. So this is the simple, yet profound, mantra that Paul lives his life by and I know that after meeting him, I am more motivated to help others in my local community.
Another organization we worked with called Green Light New Orleans was very different in it's mission but just as inspiring. Their goal is to help low-income families switch from using incandescent light bulbs to more energy efficient CFL bulbs. This is carried out by having various volunteers come to their homes and install these bulbs--both the installation and the CFL bulbs are free to the homeowner. In essence, it is helping families save money on utility bills while also making the rebuilding process more eco-friendly way. This was also a great organization to volunteer with because we got to interact one on one with various families and hear their stories of how despite all odds they have come back to rebuild their lives. One woman we met named Nita proudly told us how so many church groups from across the United States had a part in helping her family rebuild their house after a crooked contractor ran off with her money (how despicable do you have to be to do this, especially to someone who has already lost so much?!). She then eagerly got our contact info because she said she liked to stay in touch with every volunteer who had played a role in her life...I felt like we hadn't done much except change a few light bulbs but I realized how every little contribution has combined to make a large impact on her life.
One other place we volunteered was at St. Margaret's, a nursing home in the ninth ward. There were so many special moments during this day, including getting to know Augustine. She is a resident who is unable to go downstairs and play bingo with the other residents due to a bad leg, so the activities coordinator sent a few of us up to her room with a mini bingo set that we could set up and play with her. When we introduced ourselves and asked if she wanted to play some bingo, her eyes lit up and she enthusiastically nodded, "oh yes, oh yes!" Normally, I think bingo is a boring game that I would dread playing for more than two rounds. However, it was so enjoyable to sit with Augustine and play bingo for a couple of hours, listening to some of her childhood stories in between rounds. She told us of growing up in rural Louisiana and how she had worked for a 'nice white man' at his general store. She later ended up being a nanny for a 'nice white woman' and helped to raise her daughter, whom she had a picture of on her windowsill. She told us of different New Orleans recipes we had to try, described how to make crawfish etouffee, and gave us her opinion on why Popeye's makes the best fried chicken (because they use red pepper in the seasoning instead of black pepper, of course). I was sad to say goodbye to Augustine at the end of the day and I wish that I could have weekly visits with her. It was just so refreshing to sit and listen to someone like her with so much life experience give their perspective on things.
Outside of the different volunteer projects, we got to spend time in different parts of the city and I fell in love with its different quirks. Fresh beignets toppled with powdered sugar in the French Quarter at Cafe du Mond. Watching the Preservation Hall Jazz Band bring to life the exuberant spirit of Dixieland jazz. Walking through the Garden District in awe of the mansions that look like embassies but are actually people's homes. Riding the historic St. Charles Streetcar at dusk. New Orleans has such a charming quality that is hard to describe. And it's this quality that causes so many residents to want to come back to the city they love so dearly, despite all the pain it has caused them. As for me, I know that at some point, I will go back as well. And like the people of New Orleans, I have hope that because of the efforts of so many working tirelessly to help rebuild, their city will rise again with it's head held high.
"If you serve, you should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ." ~ 1 Peter 4:11
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